Thats' s one thing I couldn't figure out about iPhones. My memory was full, so I needed to transfer pictures and videoes to my Macbook. Was. Not. Happening. You can't even select individual songs to put on the phone, you have to create a playlist and tell iTunes to only sync that playlist. Anyways, back to the pictures, I plug the phone to my GF's Toshiba and I can access the pictures just like it's an external hard drive. Cut, paste, done. Pictures and videoes now removed from my phone and onto the computer with about 5 clicks.
I ditched my cell phone two years ago. I found myself using it less and less to make actual phone calls. I now carry around my laptop with 4g service and use Skype if I need to make an occasional phone call.