returningliberty
Well-Known Member
Ok, first I'd like to apologize for the name calling. I lost my temper and was out of line. It just gets old being labeled a lazy bum for being out of a job. I've considered relocating a LOT, but it isn't happening anytime soon. Firstly, because Mom refuses to leave. Secondly, I don't have the money to move because I can't keep a job. I've had seven jobs since I moved out on my own in 2002. Three of those I lost due to my employer going out of business. Two were temp jobs. The last two I've been fired from as a way for my employers to cut expenses while avoiding paying into unemployment. I've looked at all the education offered here. Pretty much everything offered here is geared toward people leaving the area for jobs elsewhere. The rest, honestly, doesn't pay well enough here to justify the cost of the training. A prime example is HVAC training. It would take me several years and several thousand dollars (that I don't have) to get certified. Once I did, no one here will hire anyone without a MINIMUM of 3 years experience, and then they only pay $.75/hr above minimum wage. The last job I saw for a mechanic was 30 miles away; they want an experienced, ASE certified mechanic but won't pay more than $8/hr. That's not worth spending $5k in tuition plus other costs.
As far as my field, it's pretty much any retail you can imagine. I've sold everything from groceries to office supplies to tires. I've got experience working on tires from a dolly to a tractor tire taller than me. I've got years of experience in the oil change industry. All of this counts for about zilch due to the way business is done in this town. It's the ******* buddy system here. Once you've pissed off the owner of one tire or lube shop by leaving for another job, you'll never get work in another one. They all seem to know each other and are thick as thieves.
So what you're saying is you dong actually have any training or "skills". I'm not demeaning you either, just pushing you to be honest (when I got out of the army in 08 I had ZERO applicable skills in the middle of an economic collapse, so i know how you feel) with yourself. You have retail experience. You are Not a sales expert with a marketing degree.
You have no piece of paper qualifying you for anything important, you rely on word of mouth recommendations and as you yourself pointed out, it's the ******* buddy system.
Well, you're the ******* (in their minds), and you have no buddies (except us)
Bottom line: you need SOME kind of piece of paper certifying you in Something. do some research, pick one (8 month program, 2 year Ass. Degree, Bachelors, w/e.), then get back to us. There are grants, loans, and yes, food stamps, to make sure you get fed while you're "retooling" for the current economy.
I for one would be proud my tax dollars are supporting a man bettering himself through hard work instead of the alternative.
Ok, your mom doesn't want to move. Would you rather starve? Load her butt up in the truck and You Go Find Work. That's what her generation did, old parents or not.