yes police pulled him over and me over and told me if i choose to press charges that he IS going to jail for assault.... and they really let into him!!! one of the cops really went off on him cause he said had it been his wife it wouldnt have been nice!!!!
If you are sure that he wasn't carjacking and that was the least of our worries as you stated, then Why did you reach for your gun??? Seems like it is a good thing that you did not have a gun with you! Certainly not worth the consequences for some idiot with aggressive driving.
There's always a fine line drawn in these situations. If you had your gun with you and all he did was beat on your window...what would you have done? If he persisted on his rampage,do you think it would've escalated to physical contact thus putting your life in eminent danger? Would brandishing a gun quell the situation or highten it? BTW...brandishing is never advisable. The hard part is that we always have to go through this thinking process in a nano second and it's sometimes difficult to tame your emotions because deep inside,we'd all like to beat this guy down for all to see and others just like him. Good thing you had your wits about you and called 911. Some folks either panic and hide or panic and react violently which almost guarantees a free ride downtown for both parties...or dead even.
Interesting observations from both. A situation like this deserves careful thought. The actions of this "idiot" went way beyond aggressive driving. Someone unstable enough to come out of their vehicle, and beat on another person's window, is a DEFINITE threat. I sure is hell would view it as such! Does that threat rise to the level of imminent bodily harm? It could, very easily, and in a split second. What if he had a gun, or knife, or even a pipe or wrench? He could be through that window and kill or injure the driver in a heartbeat. I think having her gun ready is ABSOLUTELY called for. Brandished, or pointed at the guy? No.If you are sure that he wasn't carjacking and that was the least of our worries as you stated, then Why did you reach for your gun??? Seems like it is a good thing that you did not have a gun with you! Certainly not worth the consequences for some idiot with aggressive driving.
Does her life have to be in imminent danger for her to use deadly force in that situation?There's always a fine line drawn in these situations. If you had your gun with you and all he did was beat on your window...what would you have done? If he persisted on his rampage,do you think it would've escalated to physical contact thus putting your life in eminent danger? Would brandishing a gun quell the situation or highten it? BTW...brandishing is never advisable. The hard part is that we always have to go through this thinking process in a nano second and it's sometimes difficult to tame your emotions because deep inside,we'd all like to beat this guy down for all to see and others just like him. Good thing you had your wits about you and called 911. Some folks either panic and hide or panic and react violently which almost guarantees a free ride downtown for both parties...or dead even.
I'm guessing because a young lady with a burly enraged truck driver approaching her vehicle and banging on her window could/would/should feel her life may be in danger?
Best to be ready.
Just because she wasn't worried about him carjacking her doesn't mean she wasn't worried that he would assault her.
Does her life have to be in imminent danger for her to use deadly force in that situation?
There's always a fine line drawn in these situations. If you had your gun with you and all he did was beat on your window...what would you have done? If he persisted on his rampage,do you think it would've escalated to physical contact thus putting your life in eminent danger? Would brandishing a gun quell the situation or highten it? BTW...brandishing is never advisable. The hard part is that we always have to go through this thinking process in a nano second and it's sometimes difficult to tame your emotions because deep inside,we'd all like to beat this guy down for all to see and others just like him. Good thing you had your wits about you and called 911. Some folks either panic and hide or panic and react violently which almost guarantees a free ride downtown for both parties...or dead even.
Okay...That's the way a jury would like to see it.
Although we all know that these thresholds of the law are pure BS,we have to mind are "Ps & Qs" in this liability concious world we live in. It's unfortunate that we have to live with such scrutiny when it comes to protecting yourself because I come from the school that believes everyone is guilty and up to no good.
...Brandished, or pointed at the guy? No...