Like I said earlier in the thread, the "soft" will not last very long.
I’d be willing to bet the same people calling people soft and acting macho about this would be some of the first to die off. Since that’s all you have to contribute thus far teach us the way. What are you able to do so differently that would help you while all of us softies ( or honest people, whatever you’d like to call it) would die off first. You said yourself your retired so I’d imagine your up in age and not in the same shape physically you once were.