Bottom line....
You will not be able to out shoot either weapon. They are both good guns out of the box and with enough practice, you will feel confident with the weapons platform.
Good Advice, but what about the comparison to the Ruger. The OP was comparing the XDm to the Ruger.
Thanks guys for all your comments and offers to shoot your guns. My girl and I got out last night and were able to shoot the Sr9, XDM, and a Sig 250. I fired about 50 rounds threw each, and my girl fired about 30. My first impressions were I still like my glock better. My girl fell in love with the SR9 and told me she had to have it. I guess I should have left her home. I guess it’s nice for your girl to enjoy and not complain on spending money on more firepower. On the way home I asked her if I could get two and she said why don’t you wait for your birthday in November and maybe she will get me the P250. That would be my first Sig. I really guess I have me a keeper for once.