Not for me... yes, I have plenty of issues of my own, but this is for a friend of mine.
He's not very sociable, not a lot of friends that I know of, about 65 (I know he has started getting SS), retired, lost his wife of 30(+) years to cancer about 6 months ago, lives in south Baton Rogue, three kids live out of state. He's been thru the expected emotional process, seems to be doing OK other than understandably depressed and lonely. I got him to meet me for breakfast a few days ago, just in an effort to get him out of the house. He asked me what he could do, where he could go to meet some new friends. He's a home-body, likes his garden and yard, rides motorcycles, not a member of any church or other similar social organization that I know of; think he just let his wife take care of that sort of stuff. I'm not the best source for such advice, so thought I'd post this. Where could a guy like him go to begin rebuilding a social life? I suggested something like E-Harmony dating site, but he's leery of those, would rather just meet people face-to-face.
He's not very sociable, not a lot of friends that I know of, about 65 (I know he has started getting SS), retired, lost his wife of 30(+) years to cancer about 6 months ago, lives in south Baton Rogue, three kids live out of state. He's been thru the expected emotional process, seems to be doing OK other than understandably depressed and lonely. I got him to meet me for breakfast a few days ago, just in an effort to get him out of the house. He asked me what he could do, where he could go to meet some new friends. He's a home-body, likes his garden and yard, rides motorcycles, not a member of any church or other similar social organization that I know of; think he just let his wife take care of that sort of stuff. I'm not the best source for such advice, so thought I'd post this. Where could a guy like him go to begin rebuilding a social life? I suggested something like E-Harmony dating site, but he's leery of those, would rather just meet people face-to-face.
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